This week my husband Joe, and son Benjamin, 19, are off all week for Thanksgiving. Son Joseph, 16, has off Thanksgiving Day and Friday, as well as Lovina, 14, and Kevin, 13 from school. So it seems as if this week will go faster than usual.
Saturday our three sons and Joe went to help at sister Emma and Jacob’s house again, preparing for the upcoming wedding of niece Emma and Menno on December 7. Menno’s family was there also helping. I decided to stay here and keep sewing. I did make a potato casserole to send along with Joe and the boys, to make lunchtime a little easier for Emma and her daughters.
Today Joe and Benjamin are helping son-in-law Mose replace some windows in their house. This should make their house warmer this winter. With the windows out, the house is cold so daughter Susan and baby Jennifer came here for the day. Susan brought her sewing along to work on here. After the girls and I washed our laundry, I also sewed and managed to get my dress and part of my cape sewn too.
Recently a reader asked what a cape is. It is the triangular piece of fabric that goes from the waist and over our shoulders and crosses in front. Then the apron is put over the bottom of the cape and belted around the waist. In our community capes are usually worn to church weddings and special occasions. For church, a white cape and apron is worn, but for a wedding we wear the same color cape and apron as our dress color and material, which we call a “dress suit.” I hope that explains enough on the cape.
I do not get to see your questions on the website, so I appreciate my editors taking time to print them out and mail them to me. I was encouraged by all of your kind words, so I want to say thank you!
Another question was about what an Amish bride wears. This can vary from one community to the next. In some communities the brides will wear a black dress with white cape and apron. In our community, the bride chooses her color of dress, but wears a white cape and apron. Also in our church community, a bride wears a black covering to the wedding service. After she is married she changes to a white covering and won’t wear a black covering again. The unmarried girls wear black coverings to church services, but wear white coverings at all other times.
Daughter Elizabeth was married in a burgundy color dress and our daughter Susan chose a green dress. I hope this explains it well enough.
Some brides sew their own dresses, while other have their mother or someone else sew it. Daughter Elizabeth sewed her own wedding dress but I sewed Susan’s wedding dress. I made my own wedding dress but I didn’t have a choice in the color because all brides in that community wore black dresses with a white cape and apron to get married.
Another question a reader asked was why we use sawdust in horse stalls instead of straw. I think it is just whatever someone prefers. Joe thinks it’s easier to muck out the sawdust and we can also get it free from local saw mills.
To the reader wondering what we use to wash windows, we use white vinegar and warm water, using cheesecloth towels to wipe dry—and any rag to wash. Do not use any fabric softener to wash the cheesecloth towels.
A reader requested my Sloppy Joe recipe. I try to make it similar to son-in-law Moses’s “recipe” but since he doesn’t have a recipe and just puts in a little of this and that, I tried to write down amounts. Add or take out any of the ingredients if you prefer. Our children love when Moses makes Sloppy Joes. Enjoy!
God’s blessings to all and Happy Thanksgiving!
Sloppy Joe Recipe
1 pound sausage
1 pound venison (ground)
¼ cup brown sugar
2 tablespoons maple syrup
1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
½ teaspoon garlic salt or powder
1 teaspoon onion salt or powder
½ cup BBQ sauce (any type)
1 tablespoon mustard
½ cup ketchup
Brown sausage and venison together in skillet or large pan. Add rest of ingredients, stir well, and heat through. Serves 12 or so. Other seasonings of your choice can be added.
Lovina’s Amish Kitchen is written by Lovina Eicher, Old Order Amish writer, cook, wife and mother of eight. She is the co-author of three cookbooks; her newest cookbook, The Essential Amish Cookbook, is available from 800-245-7894. Readers can write to Eicher at PO Box 1689, South Holland, IL 60473 (please include a self-addressed stamped envelope for a reply) or at LovinasAmishKitchen@MennoMedia.org.
10 thoughts on “Lovina answers reader questions about Amish clothing traditions”
My question is for christmas time. I know amish do not put up a christmas tree. I was wondering if the house inside is decorated at all and if you exchange christmas cards with family, friends and neighbor?
They do exchange Christmas cards with all of the above. Our impression is that they might use simple decorations inside the house–like napkins and candles but nothing elaborate. Perhaps Lovina will write about this sometime.
Thank you for explaining what the Cape is. I had asked about it and I appreciate the photos showing them.
Thank you so much for taking the time to answer the questions! I appreciate that so much. Thank you also for including the photos of the dress and apron. Sometimes it is easier to understand with a photo, than in a verbal description.
You use the same thing we do to wash windows and I prefer to dry with unprinted newsprint as we’ve found it leaves a completely streak-free clean. Often I can’t find unprinted newspaper inexpensively and in reasonable quantity, so I use the cheesecloth most of the time. My mother (age 82) has always used that for her windows and I followed suit. She sometimes used printed newspaper (black and white only), but prefers not to.
I hope you have a lovely time at the wedding you will be helping at!
It sounds like a lovely time.
Thanks, Lea for your comments on cleaning windows. I’m sure you’ve read the follow up columns on the wedding and I’m sorry this response has been so late in coming. Thanks for writing.
Thank you for the pictures of the dress and cape. I would love to see pictures of the sweet dresses you mentioned purchasing for your granddaughters at a recent yard sale. Grandchildren are such a blessing.
Glad you enjoyed the pictures. They like to keep their privacy as much as possible too so I’m sure you understand.
Reading about Amish clothing, especially regarding weddings was interesting. You mentioned “coverings”. What is a covering?
A covering is the white cap or prayer veiling that is usually stiff and frames a woman’s bun or hair arrangement. You can see one here and also a description of why it is worn: http://salomafurlong.com/aboutamish/2011/03/amish-womens-head-coverings/
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