I am still taking life at a much slower pace this week. Last week daughter Elizabeth took my place writing this column, which I appreciated.
I had hernia surgery, and the doctor added mesh, so I hope for good results. Earlier this year, in February, I had a hernia that was also repaired with mesh. The doctor says that one is doing well, so hopefully I will be done with surgeries for a while. My regret is that my doctor will be retiring from being a surgeon. In the last fifteen and a half years he has done all eight surgeries I’ve had and always did a great job. When we moved to Michigan, I didn’t have a doctor yet when I had daughter Lovina by emergency c-section and had complications which made me have a hospital stay of a week. This was when I met my current doctor and he did a wonderful job. Seven weeks after Lovina was born I had my gall bladder removed, also. I will miss not having him for my surgeon, but he will still be my doctor for a few more years.
We have had supper brought in three times this week and that has really been a great help to the girls. It is greatly appreciated, and may God bless those who brought food for their kindness!
We were finally able to get some coal, so the house is more comfortable with the coal stove going. We had some pretty chilly days, and when you aren’t active with work it’s more noticeable. Cold weather approached us pretty fast. It was as if we skipped autumn.
Monday and Tuesday were both rainy and with no heat in the house it was a challenge to get the laundry dried. I wish we had more clotheslines on the porch. We filled up what we do have and hung clothes out on the lines between showers. When you have nasty weather and laundry that needs to be dried, the rain makes a lot more work. At least next time the clothes can be dried in the basement if the weather isn’t good.
Yesterday daughters Elizabeth and Susan and their children came home for the day. The children can’t understand why grandmother doesn’t come out and carry them in like usual. My doctor’s orders are to not lift over 15 pounds and all the children are over that. I can hold them on my lap though, if they hold still.
I sat by the table with Abigail, 3, and Jennifer, 21 months, and colored in coloring books. Abigail didn’t like how Jennifer wanted to scribble up the whole picture. Jennifer didn’t like that Abigail had the newest colors, so it was interesting to sit between them and keep peace. It always amazes me how young children can be so forgiving and, in a few minutes, forget what their quarrel was about. Let us take an example from these little angels to forgive and forget.
This evening daughter Elizabeth and son-in-law Tim will leave their children here while they attend the viewing/visitation of Tim’s 50-year-old cousin Richard. Richard was biking when he was struck by a driver in a hit and run. Another truck came along and didn’t see him lying on the road. Richard died later at the hospital due to injuries from the accident. Richard’s wife died last year from cancer, also at the age of 50. Our sympathy goes to the children and loved ones losing both parents so young and close together. Such a tragedy! May God help them through this trial.
I have an appointment this afternoon at the doctor’s office to have some of my staples removed. I will be so glad once this is all over. Patience is not my strong point. It is hard for me to not be able to work like I usually do, but I think its good for me to see how others have it who cannot do everything they want. I need to be thankful for my blessings.
Space is up so until next time—God bless!
This week I will share the recipe for pumpkin bars which daughter Elizabeth made and brought here for us to eat. Delicious!
1 2/3 cups sugar
1 cup vegetable oil
1 15-ounce can pumpkin
2 cups all-purpose flour
2 teaspoons baking powder
2 teaspoons cinnamon
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 8-ounce package cream cheese, softened
1/2 cup butter or margarine, softened
2 cups powdered sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. In a bowl, mix eggs, sugar, oil, and pumpkin until light and fluffy. In another bowl, stir together the flour, baking powder, cinnamon, salt, and baking soda. Add the dry ingredients to the pumpkin mixture and mix until thoroughly combined and batter is smooth. Spread batter into a greased 9×13-inch pan. Bake for 30 minutes. Let cool completely before icing. Cut into bars. Makes 48 small or 24 large bars.
Icing: Beat cream cheese and butter until smooth. Mix in the powdered sugar until combined. Stir in the vanilla. Spread on cooled pumpkin bars.
Lovina’s Amish Kitchen is written by Lovina Eicher, Old Order Amish writer, cook, wife, and mother of eight. Her newest cookbook, Amish Family Recipes, will be available in April 2020 from the publisher, Herald Press, 800-245-7894. Readers can write to Eicher at PO Box 1689, South Holland, IL 60473 (please include a self-addressed stamped envelope for a reply); or email LovinasAmishKitchen@MennoMedia.org and your message will be passed on to her to read. She does not personally respond to emails.
11 thoughts on “Lovina heals from surgery and enjoys time with grandchildren”
I love your column!
I, too, am recovering from hernia surgery. Operation was 10/15. I went in 2 weeks later for staple removal…they only took 4 out and said they’d like to wait another week to remove the rest! Maybe taking longer to heal as I am 72 🙂 Mine was a ventral hernia, the aftermath of a hysterectomy 3 years ago.
The pumpkin bars look divine.
Wow you had another surgery. Very surprised. Didn’t know you had another. Hopefully you will recover well. I love to read your letters fell more connected
prayer foryouheal angelare aare watching over you and family ijust love amish we have alot in durand wis and around here happy thansgiving god bless
I am so sad to hear about Tim’s cousin, Lovina. What a terrible thing for all of the family. My prayers are with all of them. I am glad that you are healing from your surgery. Prayers for patience as that can be so hard! I so enjoy your writing about your daily life. Thank you for sharing with all of us. Although our lives are very different in many ways, in some ways they are exactly the same as we experience the joys and sorrows of life. Blessings to you and yours!
I hope that Lovina is doing better. Always appreciate her frank and honest letters.–and how she always identifies each family member!
Tell her, “take care”!
I’m so sorry your family has had so many hardships this year. God Bless Timothy’s, cousins family. I can’t imagine their loss.
Wishing you healthy, happy days.
Sorry to hear of yet another surgery, and understand the unsettling emotions, of one’s Dr. retiring. We just lost our Dr. of over 25 years, due to his retirement! So hard to find a replacement!
Thanks for the recipe…sounds like a “MUST TRY” for me!
So glad you are recovering well. Bless you and your family.
Has your husband been able to find work again?
Love the recipe. I have a big hernia that needs surgery you inspired me to finally get surgery l live in Michigan too just have to decide where to go . Hope you heal quickly!
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